A Ugandan businessman in Botswana has denied accusations against him that he abused a local woman and disfigured her private parts. Isaiah Batambuze, 50, based in Botswana admitted to having fallen in love with Tebogo Motlhabani, 41 woman but he refuted allegations that he pulled her clitoris and left them hanging’ as the woman claims.

At the police station Batambuze first denied sleeping with Motlhabani, a Security Guard at Oriental Plaza where his IT business is located. However, pressed by the police for answers, Batambuze changed his statement and said:

“It was just a short relationship which never worked out because Motlhabani was an uncontrollable woman. I had carnal knowledge of her private parts but I never pulled anything between her legs. When we met I told her that I have been in Botswana for 13 years and I had someone I was planning to marry”.

So when I realised that Motlhabani was becoming a big problem to keep as a girlfriend I got rid of her, Batambuze says.

But Motlhabani is claiming that she is contemplating a lawsuit against Batambuze if he does not make an effort to assist her financially to fix her vagina through surgery.

“He abused me for the six months that we were together. He said that he wanted me to have long vaginal lips like the Tswapong and Kalanga women so he used to lubricate me with Vaseline and ‘milk’ me every time before sex. I agreed to it because he had promised to marry me,” said the mother of two. Narrating intimate details of their sex lives Motlhabani says of how the Ugandan man laid her on her back and lengthened her clitoris the way the Baganda do to their girls before marriage.

She also went on to accuse Batambuze of refusing to use a condom every time they had sex. “He also did not like using condoms,” Motlhabani says. Sometimes he would put on a condom when the lights were on but take it off as soon as the lights went off. I ended up giving up on protection because despite everything I was convinced he was my husband to be. That’s why I want to sue him for a breach of promise too,” she says. “But in the meantime all I want from him is for him to come back and help me repair my private parts. The long clitoris is even uncomfortable for me to walk and live a normal life. Batambuze made it clear that he wanted to be left alone to enjoy his new marriage. He tied the knot to another woman over the Independence holidays.

Walakira Nyanzi

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