Here are the things every woman should know to have better sex. Every woman has a surefire happy-making position according to researching in sex making.
By all means, try new things, mix it up, find an alternate use for your baby’s exersaucer when she’s asleep if it adds to the variety — but figure out your no-fail move or position so you know you can always have an orgasm when you need one.
That sex position may change maybe in your misspent youth you were all about acrobatics and funky props, but now you strive for a deep connection with your guy.
The way your vagina looks, however, is perfectly normal and no, we don’t have to see it to know that. Sex in a soft, clean, comfy bed is underrated so you are supposed to want to do it on the kitchen floor, in the airplane bathroom, and hanging from your light fixtures.
There’s no shame in enjoying your good sheets. Everyone else is not having more or better sex than you are there is no “normal” amount we should all aspire to, no magic number of times per month that signifies your relationship is hunky-dory. There’s only one question you need to answer: are you having enough sex for you?
Worrying about your orgasm is the best way to chase it away when your mind is roiling, it’s not happening, concentrate … he’ll think he failed … what’s wrong with me? You’re thinking, not feeling. Focus on the lovely physical sensations instead and soon you won’t be able to think straight… in a good way. Planned sex can be even better than spontaneous sex anticipation as foreplay. Think about it. Yes, you can give him a hand touching yourself to speed up your happy ending is not only allowed, it’s appreciated, especially when your guy has had his neck in an awkward position for the better part of an hour.
He doesn’t need you to know any fancy techniques “there are many paths to male orgasm as long as you pay attention to his reactions, refrain from inflicting pain and don’t do anything involving teeth (again, unless he asks), you won’t hear any complaints. Also note that the pain during intercourse is not normal. Occasional discomfort may just mean that you’re tense or haven’t had enough foreplay, but if sex hurts often, see your doctor. “It could be as simple as a low-grade urinary tract infection,” whatever it is, you don’t have to suffer out there, simply enjoy your sex. But at the same time you need to know that AIDS is still there.